On this day 22 years ago, my 14-year-old cousin, Lauren Nicole Geeslin, breathed her last and crossed over into heaven. But today, instead of focusing on all the trauma and pain that resulted from her passing, I want to take a moment to remember her for who she was – a smart, compassionate young woman who loved others and loved the Lord.

Below is a poem that Lauren wrote about herself. It was read at her funeral, and to this day, is treasured by her family, friends and loved ones. I think this poem says a lot about her character, wisdom and what was important to her. I’m so thankful that we have this little piece of her in writing, and it’s an honor to share it with you.

She is still loved and missed every day, but we know that a joyous reunion in heaven awaits us one day. Until then, we’ll remember her – just like this.